If you’re unaware of social networks, learn about them today. Some features of social networking sites may include messaging and texting capabilities. Polyamorous lovers use technology, Internet cafes, netbooks and mobile devices like the blackberry smart phone to stay in touch with other relationships. When you notice a significant other constantly looking for hotspots, you may ask why.

It’s a sure sign that something’s amiss when your significant other is permanently bonded to a mobile device or computer.  Although many people work significant hours away from the office, your significant other can’t leave his smart phone at home. He’s constantly checking a certain site and images of his friends. Most of his friends happen to be women. You’re enlightened, this isn’t a problem…. But you’re spending the afternoon together, walking through a lush meadow. What’s he doing?

He’s an attorney, so you aren’t really worried. He’s got to answer messages. He’s got a right to privacy. He can’t talk about clients, even with you. Looking over his shoulder, you see he’s opened another social networking site. Pictures pop onto the small screen.

Sending mobile texts directly from a mobile device to another may cause the device to make a noise or vibrate. Using a social network site avoids this result. When he’s with you, no sounds emanate from the mobile device.

Other concerning behavior clues involve your significant other’s’ creating multiple accounts on social networks. You know about one of his accounts. He posts pictures of his children and dog, and his only friend is you!

If you use email chat programs, you may notice links appearing on your screen that seem unusual. For example, online dating site links keep appearing on your email account. You don’t use online dating services. You don’t send emails about online dating. The person with whom you’re communicating in the chat program uses these sites. If you start to see “Sugar Daddy” or “Cougar” sites, ask how long he’s been concerned about big cats!